When we are becoming aware and applying transmutation (Laws of Light in the mental bodies) to our resistance patterns (displayed as dualities), they are created (in our environment) as the opposite of what we are holding (holding the idea of peacefulness and experiencing discord), the same as what we are holding (sometimes more difficult to recognize the resistance as this can seem to support the pattern)....or a grain left of either/both.
Responsibility to creating our experience is the beginning of the process, which grows and develops as one becomes more and more adept at recognizing and releasing patterns.
More willingness is required to continue to look deeper, and more Love is accessed.

Before going out preaching to the masses...
the fires within must be first walked.